It's a "REMINDER"...a big heart shaped blatant reminder to everyone especially men that he needs to make some romantic effort...to force him to shop compulsively for things that they dont need to buy in order to express their love...Most men know that they will be in trouble if they dont buy an expensive present for their women...I've witnessed women cry at their lack of gifts, or have a full of tantrum because the flowers delivered to the office weren't what thy expected...Valentines day isn't about you guys buy or do...Oh no, it's about how much jealousy it provokes in others...weeehh!!...Seriously, not just that but i see my single friends, those who by choice or force are alone and i feel sorry on them on valentines day...Not because they are single, Oh no! I feel sorry because all the ones who are in couples make them feel as if they were missing something just because they get a silly card , box of chocolates and boasting about their enormous bouquet of flowers...
Please do not take me wrong, I am a romantic person and still looking for my happy ever after...I believe in love...But i hate to see how valentines day has become another commercial festivity...I am not against genuine demonstration of love on valentines day, what i am against is simple consumerism to disguise the lack of love...Why MUST we celebrate love one day a year?..why not celebrate love everytime we can?...in my ideal world, i would like to be romanced every single day of the year...i would like to feel loved and needed everyday, not just one silly day in the calendar...I dont need a special day or occasion to tell my boy that i love him, that i am head over heels about him...I dont need someone to remind me in the calendar that it is time to send him a loving card or message...He doesn't need a day marked in the calendar to make me special...
So, guy's --off the hook of failing the utopian 14th febuary task...You got 365 days to sweep off your love ones feet with love and romance...
YES, valentines day may suck's, but whatever story you may have..,loving someone and be loved is still the best feeling you'll ever get...So HAPPY HEARTS DAY, sucker!!! Peace...lots of love..mwah
