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No such thing as a "good man"...

There is no universal "good man". Now hold your horses, Im not saying all men are asses. Im saying there are only variations of a "good man". The idea of a "good man" changes with every woman. Therefore the idea of a "good man" has several different meanings. Although, some of the traits may overlap between two women's views of this "good man", they are in no way the same. This is the same idea behind a "good woman". When you find your "good man", you have actually found your soulmate. The man that decides he doesnt want football everyday, to one woman. The man who listens, to another. When you find your "good man" you may not be his "good woman". Which is why finding a "good man" doesnt always guarantee you a lifelong relationship. When a man finds his "good woman", and his "good woman" deems him her "good man" is when they have each found "the one"! The one they can spend the rest of their lives with. Many people search their entire lives for that exact situation. The chance of finding the one is very unlikely. That however does not mean you wont find someone to spend the rest of your life with. The little annoyances in each person can be worked out. Pushed aside to let happiness in. You may think you have found the one, but you probably have not(chill, Im young this is probably all squash buckle to you wise bloggers!) If "the one" annoyed you, and never changed the habit that did so, he or she was not "the one".   There is no such thing as perfect, so there is not the perfect match. This is why your love for the person you call "the one" doesnt change. Love is instinct, and attraction. Your heart(which is really controlled be the brain but...) leads you in to that endeavor. The heart overlooks the annoyances and bads in general.   I have always said that love located entirely within the heart will never work. There has to be an intellecutal part of love too, that is run by the brain. The love of the heart is emotional and physical and those two cannot stand on their own when the going gets tough. In these times the love of the brain, continues on when emotions and the physical have either failed, or are not enough. However when all three work together in a harmonious balance, this is what I think is true love. However the fact at hand is there is no perfect match. Therefore there is no "good man" or "good woman". Half the fun in a relationship is the little annoyances, and compromises. Thats all I really can say......