Love Philosophy
1. Love Yourself First:
It's simple math: if u don't have enough love for yourself, u can't possibly have any to share. As Buddha say's, "You , you yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." Learn to love yourself first--and then you can read the rest of these rules..
2. You Get What You Give.
Karma comes back around. Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. Say it how you want, but it was The Beatles who best put to words the second most important rule of love: "And in the end, the love you take is equal to love you make."
3. Show Him You're Interest:
Boy's aren't always observant or brave. While you don't need to throw yourself at him, a smile or a sincere compliment may give him the courage to (finally!) ask you out.
4.Dont Be Afraid to Jump then Fall:
sing's Taylor Swift. Live a little! In life and especially in love, You've got to take a few risk to make things happen.
5.It's ok to Say "NO":
He might be the guy You've been crushing on forever, but if he asks you to do something you're not comfortable with---whether it's during your first date or your third anniversary--you have to be able to say, "That's enough." Don't compromise yourself . He'll respect you if you show that you respect yourself.
6.His Boundaries matter, too:
Respect goes both ways. For instance, if he says he's not ready to meet your folks, give him time. Pressuring each other only leads to regret in long run..
7. Manners Matter Especially on First Date:
Do be polite, ask open-ended questions about his interests, dress appropriately, and smile! Don't brag, talk about money, or over-share(exes are never a proper subject over dinner).
8. The World Will Not End if He Doesn't Like You Back. And You Will Get Over Him. Promise...!
9. Love For The Right Reason's, or Not At All:
Ask yourself: do you really love this person , or are you just feeling left out because all your friends are in realtionships? Is showing him off more important to you than spending time alone with him? Love others for the same reason you want to be loved--just because you're you....
10. Communicate:
and we don't just mean talk. The secret to succeeding in love (and also to avoiding war) is to listen, and not just to what you want to hear, but to what the other person is really saying.
11. Compliments Work:
Trust us: guys love to hear that they're good-looking,talented,smart, and sexy as much as girls do. Make him feel good about himself once in a while, and he's more than likely to return the favor.
12: Actions Speak Louder Than Words:
You can't always expect him to declare your beauty to the world in Shakespearean verse--most guys find it hard to say how they feel about a girl. But his behavior should tell you that he thinks you're amazing: he smiles when he sees you, he puts your needs first, and he;s always polite. Positive actions are always better than empty words.
13. We Make Each Other Laugh:
say's Reese Witherspoon when asked what makes her relationship work. When you can share laughter with someone, you can share almost anything else.
14. Love With All Your Heart, But Don't Lose Your Head:
Be generous with the love you show, but hold on to who you are. Acting without thought makes you a slave to your feelings.
15: There's no Such Thing as "The Perfect Guy":
only guys who do their best to make you happy. Those are the one's worth keeping..
16: Don't Change Yourself to Suit His Idea of "The Perfect
Girl":
take it from a lady who had to lead a whole country:" I've reached a point in my life where it's no longer necessary to impress. If they like me the way I am, that's good. If they don't, that's too bad"---former President Cory Aquino
17. Love Can Be Tough, But it Can be Worth it:
a little wisdom from 1984: " That's why they call them crushes. If they were easy, they'd call them something else". ---Jim Baker, Sixteen Candles..
18. Honesty is Still the Best Policy:
both in relatioships and in dating. He should like the real you. Actress Mila Kunis says,
"Playing coy is silly. Speak your mind. If he gets turned off, he's the wrong man."
19. Making Sacrifices is a Must:
you shouldn't give up study time , work or ditch your friends for him, but you should also make time for him. Spending one afternoon playing NBA 2K11 with him instead of watching the whole first season of The Vampire Diaries for the third time will be worth it when he realizes (all over again) that you really are " The Best Girlfriend Ever".
20. Learn to Forgive:
yes, boys can be insensitive, hurtful, and stupid, and sometimes they do deserve the silent treatment. But we girls aren't perfect either, and rejecting a sincere apology is prideful and pretty. Let him make it up to you. He's much better company than a grudge, after all.
21. "Couple Things" are Cool:
it's important that you find things you enjoy doing together. Love thrives in shared experiences, whether it's cooking, watching favorite TV program, playing sports, going to a special restaurant, going to concerts, or all of the above.
22. When It's your Fault, Say Sorry and Mean it:
self-respect doesn't mean putting yourself above everyone else. Be humble enough to accept your mistakes and apologize for them.
23. Love Is Not Equivalent to Stalking:
you do not need to know where he is, whom he's with, and what he's doing at any given minute. That's not love, that's creepy!. Give each other time and space to be your own selves. Having separate experiences is as important as having shared ones, because it means you'll always have something to talk about and reveal to each other.
24. It's About Pulling up, Not Pushing Down:
he should be bringing out the best in you, not the worst! Think more along the lines of Fabolous's " You Make Me Better." rather than Eminem and rihanna's "Love The Way You Lie".
25. Have Fun! :
Love is amazing feeling. Enjoy every minute of it and be thankful for the experience............................
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