Saturday, October 8, 2011

Singleness


Singleness is not a disease, it is not a form of punishment from an angry God...It is not a purgative stage either...First, be thankful for your singleness...

Single life has many advantages!!...Single people are free to do many things that married people cannot...They are free to give anything, to serve anytime, to go anywhere, to spend their money for a good cause without worrying about anybody else..These are some of the freedom and advantages of being single..


Of course, it is great to be married..When you come home, your wife/husband is there to welcome you..Understands and comfort when you need it..Joy of children..And there is the sexual intimacy that married people can experience..Nevertheless, the advantages of the married life do not cancel out the advantages of the single life..If God calls you to a particular state of life, whether for the time being, or for the rest of your life, rejoice in where God has called you to be, for that is the best place to be!!...

It is common among single people to feel sorry for themselves..But single people should take on a new way of thinking..Be thankful....Congratulate yourself that you have persevered and preserved yourself..You may be tempted to view not being in a romantic relationship as a disadvantage,. But it may also tell of something good..At least you are not in a relationship just for the sake of loneliness, the feeling of togetherness or the desire for companionship..Getting into a relationship is about more than these...It is about a union of heart, mind and spirit: oneness is the ideal for any relationship..If we get into a relationship for the wrong reasons, we will only end up suffering the ill effects..It will feel like a burdensome yoke rather than a blessing..

Thank God for where you are now.!!..Submit to God's perfect timing bacause He loves you and knows what He's doing in your life....

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