IN THE NAME OF LOVE

These days, there are fewer perfect prince..

"I tell myself to wait because Prince Charming didn't find her princess until the end."

I remember those days when I was alone and searching for my perfect match. I didn't know what man exactly I was looking for.

When I was in my teenage life, I was too modest to express my attraction in concrete actions. I am not a "party crasher" kind of girl who would go on a date every saturday with a different guy. I am more an introvert not extrovert.

The notions of "the ideal person" and "the perfect match" are central to our perception of romantic love...

When we have dreams and goals, it’s nice but it is a lonely place to be if we don’t have someone to share those dreams with. When we have someone, like a perfect match, who believes in us and our dreams and goals, it makes those dreams and goals and those successes so much sweeter..

BUT....the big question is.....

Does a perfect relationship exist?

Unfortunately, there is no "Perfect relationship", as well as no "perfect human being"

Perfection doesn't exist. If something were perfect what would be the point of having it? It would be boring. There would be no fire or passion. I don't think one needs to pick fights to ignite some passion and in fact I think that doing so is quite immature..

Relationships are hard work and talk time, open and honest communication, trust and respect. It you can manage that, it will be about as perfect as a relationship can get....

Finding a match or relationship is not easy as it is, there is again no clear cut answer..BUT how will you find your match if u just sitting at home ...

SO......get out more often, meet new friends, try to smile more often----A smile breaks the ice and makes people more attractive....Do not lock yourself at home , be sociable...and more important is "Being yourself".

If you feel that you can be yourself with the person you like, congratulations. You have found your match. From my own experience I can say, that whenever I was trying to push something that I wasn't, that would lead me to failure. But when I found my soulmate, I could be myself and that was the best thing about relationships.

After all there is no perfect match. We are all only humans. Don't fall in despair if you can not find that special someone. Try not to think about it and make as many friends as you can. It will pay off. Give and it shall be given to. I hope that this article gave you some ideas and encouraged not to give up....BE HAPPY...:)

I'm a heartless bitch

I've made some stupid decision and choices, which has resulted in a blueprint for a life that generally sucks the big one...I'm not blaming it to you or even karma---all my fault and i dont know how to make it better..I can never forgive myself and will never be able to forget..I have wronged..I care deeply about myself because I was too selfish and heartless..What scares me is the knowledge that no matter what I do, I can't atone or make it better.....

If only time could travel back---I wouldn't do such terrible mistakes which caused me such a high price..Regrets and remorse are what I feel..

Until then I shall suffer the punishment I have dealt myself….

or....

I must ask myself...why?

forgive and forget---I know it will take a great deal, time , and patience...

   BACK IN TIME

Today someone asked
If I would like to be able to go back
And change all the things that had gone wrong
In my Life
And although at first
The idea seemed rather appealing
I quickly realized
That the good and the bad are so intertwined
That I couldn’t change part
   Without changing the whole…

          Nobody Dies a VIRGIN. LIFE & LOVE fuck’s us all.

True Bargain

While writing on this and thinking about how to save money, "spend wisely", and spot bargains, I was inspired to go through the clutter in my room and closet, and sell all my junk..More than making a few extra bucks, it was the thought of making room for bigger and better things that excited me..


Five days, countless cramps, three migraines, and one huge backache later, I had a humongous toss pile, and a relatively small keep pile..I learned sorting junk wasn't just a physical activity..Deciding what you value can be pretty taxing___emotionally and physically...


In the end, the things I tossed away were the things I spent far too much money on----enough shoes to shod an army (if armies wore heels and girly flats), and enough makeup for a family of three kikay daughters...The things I choose to keep however, were things I didn't buy in a mall: The note my high school boyfriend wrote at the back of my fave history book; scribbled praise from my grad school professors; photos of me doing fieldwork..


Looking at my Toss and Keep piles, I realized how strange it is that we sometimes feel we never have enough, when in truth we are showered daily with the most wonderful of blessings---true bargains, as I call them...My daily list of true bargains would include the priceless joy of teaching, the way movie popcorn tastes better when shared with someone special, and the invaluable knowledge that whatever mood I'm in, it will definitely get better once I see YOU..hmmpp..


What would your list of true bargains look like? I would love to see! Whatever's on it, I'm sure you'll agree that the best things in life don't come with a price tag, and not everything that counts can be counted.. Once you learn to see the true value of things, a small allowance or a small closet will never keep you from leading a rich and fulfilling life....Enjoy the sunshine!



i love candy...:)

Rock your First

 Rock ur First................COMMUTE

 Scared about taking public transportation?....No worries!!!...You'll be cruising the streets like a pro with these tips...

*Before heading anywhere, try to gauge if it would be more practical to ride the bus, train, jeep, cab, or trycycle....Take into consideration the following: the distance, cost, and number of people sharing the fare.

*Keep loose change in your coin purse when you commute...It'll save everyone time when you give the exact amount....Familiarize yourself with the fares so that you're prepared...Remember these basic rates....

Basic philippines transportation rates:

TAXI CAB
P40 flag down rate,   P3.50 every 300 meters

JEEP
P8 per stop

BUS
P10 per stop

FX
P15 to P35

MRT
P10 TO 15*

LRT
P12 TO 20*

*depending on which station



*When taking public transportation , make sure you don't attract unnecessary attention by wearing inappropriate (too short, too revealing, or too eye-catching) clothes..Leave your heels at home or pack them in a bag to change into after you've reached your destination..

*There are specific areas where you can line up for cabs, wait for the bus, and get a trike..In the same way, there are also proper areas for you to get off..Those stops were put there for a reason..If you dont follow the rules, you might end up getting run over!!

SAFETY FIRST

1. Be aware of your sorroundings..Lock the cab door, check your belongings before alighting, avoid texting or calling, and stay away from suspicious-looking characters...

2. Give way...Always let people get off the vehicle before getting in...That's common commuting courtesy...

3. Be mindful of the time..It's best to avoid commuting past 10pm---but if you really have to, make sure you're with a trusted companion....

BE SAFE !!!!!!!!!

i love candy....:)

Scents.....

"Love at First Smell"

"Sexual chemistry" is more than just a way of talking about heated attraction. Subtle chemical keys actually help determine who we fall for. But here comes news that our lifestyles may unwittingly undermine our natural sex appeal

"I've always been into smell, but this was different; he really smelled good to me. His scent made me feel safe and at the same time turned on—and I'm talking about his real body smell, not cologne or soap. I'd never felt like that from a man's smell before"

Everyone knows what it's like to be powerfully affected by a partner's smell—witness men who bury their noses in their girlfriend's hair and women who can't stop sniffing their boyfriends' T-shirts. And couples have long testified to the ways scent-based chemistry affects their relationships..

Sexual attraction remains one of life's biggest mysteries. We might say we go for partners who are tall and thin, love to cook, or have a mania for exercise, but when push comes to shove, studies show, the people we actually end up with possess few of the traits we claim to want. Some researchers think scent could be the hidden cosmological constant in the sexual universe, the missing factor that explains who we end up with. It may even explain why we feel "chemistry"—or "sparks" or "electricity"—with one person and not with another..

When you're turned on by your partner's scent, taking a deep whiff of his chest or the back of her neck feels like taking a powerful drug...Men are sensitive to smell as well, but because women shoulder a greater reproductive burden, and are therefore choosier about potential mates...

You never know what to expect when it comes to love. You never know what to expect when it comes to life either. Life and love will always throw you curve balls, its up to you to either strike out or hit a home run.

Make sure you tell every one you love them for this very reson, No one can predict what tomorrow will bring. You just have to live for today. You never know who will walk into or out of your life tomorrow.

We are the ultimate author of our life story. Within each of us, we hold the power to change anything in our lives, and in doing so, experience more joy and fulfillment. Lasting change starts with a change in the way we think – a clear vision for our desired results, meaningful reasons why we must have them, and building momentum towards massive action to make our visions a reality.

With meaning, understanding, awareness, and conscientious planning; we can turn massive responsibilities into actual possibilities, we can incorporate healthy habits, we can realize dreams, and we can live more deliberately and intentionally shape our own destiny.

I wish I would of thought about this before i wanted to give up on everything. I know now that i cant live in the past or live for the future. Today could be my last day on this earth so I'll make the best of it.

Rainy Day Disaster

                                                              
                                                          Dont Rain On My Parade

                                            When it rains, embarrassment just pours.

   The stormy season can sometimes leave you glum...Instead of feeling down, Lift your mood with my hilarious experienced during my teenage life .....

　

DATE SWITCH

It began to rain as I was going out on a date. I ran back to grab my umbrella, but my dog came running towards me and knocked me to the ground. I couldnt get up because of the slippery floor, so when my date arrived, he found me wet and muddy on the ground..Guess who stayed in with her dog that night?...ehe...ouchhhh

SKIRT'S UP

I decided to wear my new skirt one day. I didn't expect that it would be a windy, rainy day, so i had to keep a grip on my skirt as it blew up several times..To make matters worse, I forgot to bring an umbrella!!..I totally didn't rock the wet look....hmmpppp..

DANCE OFF

I dared my boyfriend to do a rain dance right outside his house..He said he would only do the dance if I did it first, so I bravely accepted his challenge and danced under the pouring rain..After executing the steps flawlessly, I noticed that my boyfriend was gone. I glanced at their house and found his parents staring at me through the windows..I was so embarrassed that I decided to leave without saying goodbye....arrgghhh..

PIGGY BACK FAIL

My boyfriend offered to carry me piggybank style because he didn't want my feet and shoes to get wet..When I jumped onto his back, I slid and fell flat on my face. He offered to carry me again, but I was too embarrassed because i could hear the people around us snickering...

SUNDAY BEST

I wore a pretty white dress and new underwear for mass.. I didn't expect the rain to pour that day, so by the time I was inside the church, I was drenched..The nun asked me to dry up before going to the front..I didn't understand why they were so concerned...until I checked in the bathroom mirror and saw Hello Kitty's face peeking through my wet dress from my undies...How embarrassing!!!..hahahaha...

It Hurts

"It rains the hardest on the people who deserve the most sunshine."

When I was younger crying always seemed to be the answer. Now that I'm older crying seems to be the only option.

Everynight before I go to sleep I lie on my bed and stare up at my blank walls. I try to imagine the future, but right now it's as blank as those walls. All I can see is a past that I barely recognize any more..

It's hard to answer the question "what's wrong" when nothing is right...I'm tired of trying, sick of crying, I know I've been smiling, but inside I'm dying..I guess there comes a point where you just have to stop trying because it hurts too much to hold on anymore.

You say I'm always happy, and that I'm good at what I do, but what you'll never realize is, I'm a damn good actress too...I'm just learning how to smile, and that's not easy to do...Sometimes it hurts more to smile in front of everyone, then to cry all alone.

Death is God's way of saying "you're fired". Suicide is human’s way of saying "you can't fire me, I quit".I don't know what I want in life. I don't know what I want right now. All I know is that I'm hurting so much inside that it's eating me, and one day, there won't be any of me left.

I know it seems like I'm this strong person who can get though anything, but inside I'm fragile. I've had so many things thrown at me, and each one has only made a crack. What I'm afraid of is shattering.

People are always telling me to smile, like smiling is going to just take away all the hurt and pain. Well I've tried that I've tried hiding my sorrows and covering the sadness in smiles and what I've learned is that when it hurts this much inside your heart always has a way of showing it no matter how many masks you wear.

I've come to the point where nothing matters anymore, and things I used to care about aren't worth fighting for.

I can't stop crying... I don't understand, and it's not the loud, screaming crying... it's just the tears continuously roll down my face, and I can't do anything to stop them.

In reality, I'm slowly losing my mind. Underneath the guise of smile, gradually I'm dying inside. Friends ask me how I feel and I lie convincingly. Cause I don’t want to reveal the fact that I'm suffering. So I wear my disguise till I go home at night and turn down all the lights and then I break down and cry.

This isn't a perfect world. People do get hurt. You smile when you feel like crying. You act like you're ok, when you're falling apart inside. And you try to let go, you try to move on, because you know there's nothing else you could do..

I was like a flower that had been battered by a storm, but not quite destroyed. Gradually, I began to strengthen and bloom again...

Are u Extrovert or Introvert ?

Can an introvert and an extrovert find happiness together?

Are u extrovert or introvert?

Friend of mine asked me this question--has me thinking about introverts and extroverts in terms of love.

Can they both live happily ever after?

Well, why not... ..its just the matter of how u both  handle ur relationship ..Like everything else in a long-term relationship...,love,trust, mutual respect, compromise, compassion, and great communication are essential..

The difference between extroverts and introverts is not that the former are good at socializing and the latter aren't. It's that extroverts are outwardly focused and draw energy from social interactions while introverts are inwardly focused and drained by interactions..

Introversion and extroversion are of equal value. One is no better than they other. Once you recognize the differences, respect them in yourself and your partner. No eye rolling, no snide remarks, no guilt trips, no apologies, no shame.

Introverts often try to push against nature, having bought into the myth that extroversion is better . But neither introversion nor extroversion are the "right" way to be. They're just different..

It's a clash of introverted vs. extroverted personalities....Yin and yang, make it work for you. The extrovert can bring new people into your lives, the introvert can create peaceful spaces in the home and the relationship. The differences can enhance your relationship if you work with them rather than fight (over) them.

If you don't want to socialize much, then your extrovert is entitled to the freedom to socialize solo, no guilt trips. And if you like deep, intimate conversations with your friends, do you really need your partner there? The rule in marriage or relationships is that neither of us is required to participate in any particular social event, but we do grant special requests when the other says "pretty please"..

So.....

Introverts-----embrace your introversion, celebrate it, learn more about it, and share strategies for living fulfilled, happy lives as introverts..Because, introverts, it's time u stop pretending and apologizing, Sure, u can present an extroverted face to the world when necessary, but it takes a toll on u in private. And I say it's time to embrace ur nature and start defending ur case...

Extroverts------you are free to feel as u feel. As long as u don't hurt others, you may live as you prefer. But trouble starts when you pass judgment on each other's choices and perceptions. One reason you see extrovert bashing is because a lot of intoverts who have been harshly judged for their preferences feel free here to vent their perceptions for a change. It's not always easy, in a world where extroverts seem to rule, to defend ur quiet ways.

　

"Hold Me Tight"

In relationships sex isn't  just the icing on the cake... It is the cake

Love demands the reassurance of touch. Most fights are really protests over emotional disconnection. Underneath the distress, partners are desperate to know: Are you there for me?

Sex is the purest form of self-expression, the most intimate way two people can give their love to each other—and when it goes wrong, it disrupts the entire relationship. What many couples forget is how deeply sex ripples out to the farthest reaches of their love. Every couple has less sex as time goes on, and that's not always a problem in itself. But if one partner longs for sex and the other doesn't want it, that's the most dire of relationship emergencies and requires immediate and zealous attention. Sex produces physical bonding that's unique, special, and important.

"We've all been brainwashed to think emotional intimacy is the best thing,""But lots of couples get really emotionally intimate and their sex life tanks anyway." For many couples, emotional intimacy makes them feel like they're best friends—but doesn't feed their desire. The solution is to give yourself permission to be playful, to take risks, to be less emotionally intimate and more sexy. For many people, a far greater turn-on than emotional intimacy is feeling desired. "The secret is to forget about doing what you think is normal, and instead embrace whatever it is that makes you feel fun and young and sexy," "Feeling desired is a prelude to feeling desire."

We tend to think that people should be able to choose whether they want sex in a relationship—and we assume that if one partner doesn't want sex, the other partner should accept it and remain monogamous without complaint. "This is impractical, unfair, and unworkable, and often leads to infidelity,"

When people get married, they naturally have to come to compromises in many aspects of their lives—where to live, whether to have kids, and whose carrer to focus on,.But they often neglect to talk about what their sexual relationship is going to be like, how often they're going to have sex, and how high the quality of their sex will be. "That's an oversight because sex is the tie that binds,"

People have different "love languages," . For some people, touch makes them feel loved; for others it's meaningful conversations, or how much time you spend together. "But if you're married to someone whose love language is touch, you can buy them expensive gifts or take them on vacations or say I love you until the cows come home, but it won't matter because it won't mean love," . "In good relationships, partners try to figure out each other's love language and speak it—even if it's different from their own. Good relationships are built on mutual caretaking."

When a couple has emotional problems—anger, resentment, a lack of communication—in addition to a poor sex life, most people assume they'll need to fix the emotional problems first. But for many people, the opposite is true. "I don't think sexual therapy is any longer separate from marital therapy," . "If you start analyzing the sexual relationship of a couple, you get to everything else and vice versa. Sex is the window into everything else about the relationship."

Addressing emotional problems first can often work. But if a couple tries to fix those problems and comes up empty, dealing with the sexual problems first may be the solution. . "When couples start touching again, they feel closer to each other, which puts them more emotionally on the same page and makes it easier to resolve other differences...

Love Me As I Am...

"It would be so nice if inner beauty triumphed over outer appearance. But men are designed to care about packaging. It's time to accept the not-so-pretty facts about looks."

To understand what it takes to be beautiful, we need to be very clear about what being beautiful means—being sexually appealing to men. And then, instead of snarling that male sexuality is evil, we need to accept that it's just different—far more visually-driven than female sexuality..

Too many women try to get away with a bait-and-switch approach to appearance upkeep. If you spend three hours a day in the gym while you're dating a guy, don't think that you can walk down the aisle and say "I do...and, guess what...now I don't anymore!" A woman needs to come up with a workable routine for maintaining her looks throughout her lifetime and avoid rationalizing slacking off— while she's seeking a man and after she has one. Yeah, you might have to put five or ten extra minutes into prettying up just to hang around the house. And, sure, you might be more "comfortable" in big sloppy sweats, but how "comfortable" will you be if he leaves you for a woman who cares enough to look hot for him?

There are certain practical realities of existence that most of us accept. If you want to catch a bear, you don't load the trap with a copy of Catch-22—not unless you rub it with a considerable quantity of raw hamburger. If you want to snag a fish, you can't just slap the water with your hand and yell, "Jump on my hook, already!" Yet, if you're a woman who wants to land a man, there's this notion that you should be able to go around looking like Ernest Borgnine: If you're "beautiful on the inside," that's all that should count. Right. And I should have a flying car and a mansion in Bel Air with servants and a moat.

Welcome to Uglytopia—the world reimagined as a place where it's the content of a woman's character, not her pushup bra, that puts her on the cover of Maxim. It just doesn't seem fair to us that some people come into life with certain advantages—whether it's a movie star chin or a multimillion-dollar shipbuilding inheritance. Maybe we need affirmative action for ugly people; make George Clooney rotate in some homely women between all his gorgeous girlfriends. While we wish things were different, we'd best accept the ugly reality: No man will turn his head to ogle a woman because she looks like the type to buy a turkey sandwich for a homeless man or read to the blind.

There is a vast body of evidence indicating that men and women are biologically and psychologically different, and that what heterosexual men and women want in partners directly corresponds to these differences. The features men evolved to go for in women—youth, clear skin, a symmetrical face and body, feminine facial features, an hourglass figure—are those indicating that a woman would be a healthy, fertile candidate to pass on a man's genes.

These preferences span borders, cultures, and generations, meaning yes, there really are universal standards of beauty. And while Western women do struggle to be slim, the truth is, women in all cultures eat (or don't) to appeal to "the male gaze." The body size that's idealized in a particular culture appears to correspond to the availability of food. In cultures like ours, where you can't go five miles without passing a 7-Eleven and food is sold by the pallet-load at warehouse grocery stores, thin women are in. In cultures where food is scarce (like in Sahara-adjacent hoods), blubber is beautiful, and women appeal to men by stuffing themselves until they're slim like Jabba the Hut.

Men's looks matter to heterosexual women only somewhat. Most women prefer men who are taller than they are, with symmetrical features (a sign that a potential partner is healthy and parasite-free). But, women across cultures are intent on finding male partners with high status, power, and access to resources—which means a really short guy can add maybe a foot to his height with a private jet. And, just like women who aren't very attractive, men who make very little money or are chronically out of work tend to have a really hard time finding partners. There is some male grumbling about this. Yet, while feminist journalists deforest North America publishing articles urging women to bow out of the beauty arms race and "Learn to love that woman in the mirror!", nobody gets into the ridiculous position of advising men to "Learn to love that unemployed guy sprawled on the couch!"

Now, before you brand me a traitor to my gender, let me say that I'm all for women having the vote, and I think a woman with a mustache should make the same money as a man with a mustache. But you don't help that woman by advising her, "No need to wax that lip fringe or work off that beer belly!" (Because the road to female empowerment is...looking just like a hairy old man?)

It turns out that the real beauty myth is the damaging one Wolf and other feminists are perpetuating—the absurd notion that it serves women to thumb their noses at standards of beauty. Of course, looks aren't all that matter .. But looks matter a great deal. The more attractive the woman is, the wider her pool of romantic partners and range of opportunities in her work and day-to-day life.


Men like to see a wom an's waist—even on the larger ladies—so burn those muumuus, which only reveal your girlish figure in a Category 5 hurricane, and if you don't have much of a waist, do your best to give yourself one with the cut of your clothes or a belt...


 The truth is, like knowledge, beauty is power. So, ladies, read lots of books, develop your mind and your character, exercise the rights the heroes of the women's movement fought for us to have, and strive to become somebody who makes a difference in the world. And, pssst...while you're doing all of that, don't forget to wear lipgloss.



　

FLIRTING....."Nibbling on the Forbidden Fruit"

"The Game We Play"

F ------flattery
L ------listen
I ------interest
R ------responsible
T ------trusting yourself
S ------winning a Smile


Flirting recruits all domains of skills: intellect, body language, creativity, empathy. At its best, flirting is high art, whether you're vying for a soul mate, manipulating someone, or just passing the time

　
Flirting adds spice to life and supports positive attitudes toward other people. It may involve flattery, but it is a subtle and enjoyable flattery that is closer to praise than to a lie. Flirting creates a relaxing, calm, and enjoyable atmosphere. It involves curiosity, humor, imagination, and empathy. Flirting is subtle: it is typically not an explicit sexual activity, but rather an enjoyable, gentle prelude or substitute for it. Flirting has elements of intellectual teasing flavored by emotional play. During flirting, each partner's soul is stirred, thereby enabling the two souls to respond to each other. Miss Etiquette indicates that the meaning of flirting is to be playfully romantic; something of little value or importance; to speak or act in a playful or flirting way; to toy with. Indeed, her colleague, Miss Manners, considers flirtation "a gentle amusement," an activity that should be harmless and not lead to anything. 

　
Flirting encompasses seemingly contradictory aspects: honesty together with an element of innocence, as well as a mild level of deception (expressed in flattery); caring for others-by listening to and showing interest in them-while not taking them too seriously; being confident and feeling good about yourself while not attaching too much importance to yourself; intelligence flavored by emotional tone. All these characteristics are evident in online affairs.

Flirting is conducted within a tacit borderline; it is a kind of game in which participants move closer to the borderline-and sometimes even step across it-and then move back to a comfortable distance from it. Cyberflirting is a type of verbal dance in which the boundaries of sexuality are not clearly drawn. Flirting is like an inactive volcano that can become active any moment. In online affairs, crossing the line between innocent flirting and overt sexual interaction, and hence activating the sexual volcano, is greatly facilitated as the stimulation is high and the typical warning signals that alert people of infidelity-e.g., nonverbal signs of discomfort or shame-are not apparent in cyberspace.

Flirting enables you to be yourself and express all types of personal characteristics. Typical flirting offers participants an enjoyable, frivolous form of sexual communication with no serious intent. Typical flirting is usually harmless. However, often flirting is not restricted to such harmless communication and leads to a sexual relationship.

Flirting may involve gentle physical contact, but often it does not involve sexual intercourse. Flirting may develop into sexual relationships, but then it stops being flirting in the sense used here. Sometimes sexual talk is considered more sexually offensive than are certain activities involving physical contact, such as kissing and hugging. In flirting, people do not force themselves on others; it is a kind of enjoyable play having the pleasant atmosphere that is typical of the promise of sexual activity. Flirting also involves the mystery and uncertainty associated with sex. Consider the following description of flirting: "Flirting is more than ‘Hi, ya wanna?' It's teasing, playing, innuendos-it's about making someone feel special, it's about being attentive, it's about walking on the edge of danger & getting caught. Flirting is nibbling on the forbidden fruit. It's not blunt straight-to-the point comments. It's playing cat & mouse with each other, and enjoying it."

Flirting does not have to be a preparatory activity aimed at an external goal, namely, sexual intercourse. Quite often, flirting is the best available alternative-rather than means-to actual sexual intercourse. When people enjoy flirting for its own sake, it may be commendable. Although flirting has its own intrinsic value, it also has certain personal and social benefits (as well as disadvantages). Thus, flirting may help to reduce loneliness and boost one's ego and self-confidence. One survey has found that most working-women believe that flirting is good for their health and confidence. Indeed, three out of four of them have flirted with a colleague, while 28 percent have had a sexual relationship with a fellow-worker. Some findings indicate that flirting at the workplace makes people more comfortable around each other.

Although explicit sexual activities and orgasms are secondary in flirting, an orgasm is always possible-sexual arousal is often part and parcel of flirting. Since online sex is essentially a type of conversation, which is also an essential part of flirting, the distinction between online sex and flirting is not clear-cut, and the two activities often overlap. Cyberspace is associated with flirting not only in the sense that many online affairs are similar to flirting, but also in the sense that the Internet considerably facilitates the process of flirting. Flirting is particularly prevalent in chat rooms as most of them promote flirting and "fooling around."

People are attractive when they are relaxed, feeling good, and enjoying themselves. It may also work the other way around: those who are attractive are more likely to be relaxed, feel good, and enjoy themselves. Since cyberspace offers new dimensions of attractiveness, in addition to that of external appearance, it may break the vicious cycle for those who, because they are considered externally unattractive, are not relaxed and hence are unable to attract people.
　

　

He loves me, He loves me not......

Does he love me or not?.......

These questions are obvious when you are trying to figure out whether a guy loves you or not..There is a big difference in loving and liking someone. Sometimes love is confused with a strong liking or attraction towards someone...


Girls are a bit apprehensive when it comes to their relationship with a guy. It has been noted that men hesitate to express their love or feelings and end up laying a false belief for themselves. It is not only difficult but even more complex to analyze what a man desires and what is going in his mind. The question whether he loves me or not usually bothers every girl. But, with one ideal solution it is possible to know the actual love of the guy for you.

There comes a time in your life when, even if you enjoy being single, you meet the guy that makes your heart beat faster. There is no right or wrong time to fall in love – it just happens. And then, all you want is to be around him. But, what if he doesn’t seem to care..means he doesn't love you?....

Love ...is something that you grow into like a young child growing into teenager clothing. Love just don't happen overnight, in one day or in one week for that matter. I think what you feel for each other in the beginning is more attraction and curiosity and with time it can change into love, but in order for true love to happen there has to be trust, honesty, sincerity and compassion in the relationship. That is the only way you really get to know that person and to know if that person really loves you.

 Love is something you are sure about there is no doubt. It's a strong feeling you can't explain, But you know - because you can feel it. Everyone can show love, but can they feel love?. We all show our love in different ways. How about the greatest couple, who's husband buys her flowers and gifts and takes her out on a regular basis, and we all say how lucky she is, and than BOOM... The next thing you hear is they are going through a bitter divorce... and nobody can believe it. Why - because he showed his love through guilt, but she never felt love, oh sure she got a lot of flowers and gifts, but none of that matters if you don't feel love. So just because someone doesn't show you love but you can feel it - than you know it's love. You know the feeling I'm talking about... You can't make someone love you, yea in time they might grow to love, but that's a different kind of love (we all love are coffee in the morning, but were not in love with our coffee)Point being when you love someone they will love you back, there will be no doubts, because you know in your heart... He Loves Me... They don't need time to think about it..

.

 If love is something so fundamentally important to us, then why is it that we have so many issues and misunderstandings in the area of finding it?

As with all things of the heart, there is an ingredient of magic in finding love. There are no coincidences. Everything happens for a reason. Love is beautiful and unpredictable. The best thing we can do is to start to become the most outstanding person possible. The universe will know when we are ready, and when we are, true love will happen, unexpectedly...

God made YOU....then he made ME....then he whispered MEANT TO BE.........