IN THE NAME OF LOVE
"I tell myself to wait because Prince Charming didn't find her princess until the end."
I remember those days when I was alone and searching for my perfect match. I didn't know what man exactly I was looking for.
When I was in my teenage life, I was too modest to express my attraction in concrete actions. I am not a "party crasher" kind of girl who would go on a date every saturday with a different guy. I am more an introvert not extrovert.
The notions of "the ideal person" and "the perfect match" are central to our perception of romantic love...
When we have dreams and goals, it’s nice but it is a lonely place to be if we don’t have someone to share those dreams with. When we have someone, like a perfect match, who believes in us and our dreams and goals, it makes those dreams and goals and those successes so much sweeter..
BUT....the big question is.....
Does a perfect relationship exist?
Unfortunately, there is no "Perfect relationship", as well as no "perfect human being"
Perfection doesn't exist. If something were perfect what would be the point of having it? It would be boring. There would be no fire or passion. I don't think one needs to pick fights to ignite some passion and in fact I think that doing so is quite immature..
Relationships are hard work and talk time, open and honest communication, trust and respect. It you can manage that, it will be about as perfect as a relationship can get....
Finding a match or relationship is not easy as it is, there is again no clear cut answer..BUT how will you find your match if u just sitting at home ...
SO......get out more often, meet new friends, try to smile more often----A smile breaks the ice and makes people more attractive....Do not lock yourself at home , be sociable...and more important is "Being yourself".
If you feel that you can be yourself with the person you like, congratulations. You have found your match. From my own experience I can say, that whenever I was trying to push something that I wasn't, that would lead me to failure. But when I found my soulmate, I could be myself and that was the best thing about relationships.
After all there is no perfect match. We are all only humans. Don't fall in despair if you can not find that special someone. Try not to think about it and make as many friends as you can. It will pay off. Give and it shall be given to. I hope that this article gave you some ideas and encouraged not to give up....BE HAPPY...:)
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