Wednesday, September 28, 2011

God made YOU.....then he made ME...then HE whispered meant to be.....

Don’t rush things. Because somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody for you." You can never be perfect… the person you love can never be perfect too… but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no relationship is complete without God. That’s why we have marriage. It’s a bond not only between you and your loved one… but also with God.

Our relationships fail not because (s)he’s not the right person. It’s because we expected too much and we decided on our own. Let God do the work… you may call it waiting time… but while you are waiting… pray. Let God guide you always… He knows better. No, He knows best. Love is not what you think it is….

Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.

When we think we’re in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase: "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received." After a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say "You are the biggest mistake I’ve ever made for my entire life!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?

Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises "Forever, Till Death do us apart, etc." would end up "Never" and "We should part ways, I’m no longer happy with you! My love for you is DEAD!!!" Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your trust too drops down to zero degree.

"S/He ain’t the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come." But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?" "When is the right time?" That made us stick to whom we are with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are and what you really want in a relationship.

You’re right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there’s a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you already knew that you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don’t give it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made.If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don’t go deeper into it. You’ll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life. It’s really hard to say goodbye though, but you can’t make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention.Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself.

More frequently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason. We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, it’s just pity. We call it love when we’re too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we’re too much dependent on them. We call it love when we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that if they leave, no one would accept us and our past. We are mistaken, it’s just insecurity. But no matter what the definition is, the truth still remains that love isn’t something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can’t touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy...

Monday, September 26, 2011

The Confidence Commandments


Be the queen of confidence every day..It's so much easier than you think!....

1. Thou shall face your imperfections with a smile..
                                                                                  Nobody---not even those celebrities you see on tv, with their glossy hair and porcelain skin---is perfect..Embrace your title flaws because the things you don't like about yourself are often the things that make you quirky and unique...

2. Thou shall learn how to accept compliments...
                                                                            Stop downplaying compliments with false humility! A sincere compliment is a wonderful gift; don't brush it off or take it for granted..Instead, train yourself to take them graciously, and never forget to smile and say thank you..

3. Thou shall dress fashionably even on your heavy days...
                                                                                             Don't let your moody days stop you from wearing that gorgeous eyelet skirt, or that sheer dress that's guaranteed to turn heads..A stylish girl never lets anything get in the way of looking fabulous!...

4. Thou shall keep that shine on your face...
                                                                  A true confidence Queen knows how to get back to basics. She doesn't bury her pretty face under heavy layers of makeup; instead, she treats her skin what it deserves, and let her natural beauty shine through..

5. Thou shall take care of yourself..
                                                        A big part of being confident is facing the world armed with proper hygiene and good grooming every single day.. Never scrimp on the amount of time and effort you devote to keeping yourself clean and fresh....


Sweet Cold Morning Everyone...!!!!!!...~kisses~

Saturday, September 24, 2011



See that girl?...yeah..she's the one who fought for you, the one that missed you and loved you, but by the time you realize that she's the girl you want, she'll already be with the guy who figured it out....



Love Hurts
Did you ever love someone so much, you thought you’d die. You sit home alone all night, and just cry cry and cry. He looks at you but sees nothing. You look at him and yes, you see your world, your hopes, your dreams in a place inside his chest. You tear yourself apart inside, searching for reason to care. He doesn’t care about you. Loving him gets you nowhere. This time you got to learn, to say goodbye to him. He couldn’t care less about you, so neither should you. In short learn to say goodbye love should not hurt. Love does hurt especially if you have been ignored by the  person that you felt was your life. It hurts the most especially when you put all your time and effort in order to try to make the other person as happy as they can be and regardless of all that work the one you love is not able to see how much you love them....

At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop, leave them alone, walk away..It's not like you're giving up, and it's not like you shouldn't try..It's just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation..What is truly yours would eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be....



Thursday, September 22, 2011

Make Him Notice You!
(The Big Reveal Cont.3) 

Being aggresive and forward might get a guy's attention right away, but isn't 100% succesful each time..If you're not confident, cool, and totally comfortable letting him know you're interested straight on, it might be a good idea to start with simple yet effective strategies..Working your charm on the down low can yield positive results with less risk----giving you enough time to build your confidence..In the meantime, get your game on with these easy ways to make him fall for you hook, line, and sinker....


Personality counts a lot, but it won't hurt to keep that initial spark alive by prettifying yourself, no matter what your style is..Caring for your appearance isn't just about looking good---it's about taking care of yourself and liking those unique features that make you who you are..Knowing and acknowledging what's great about you will only make you more appealing to others!..

Get comfy.Donning a body-con dress in front of your crush may seem like good idea in theory, but imagine a full night of sucking in your tummy when you'd rather be in t-shirt and jeans. You'll be ill at ease in front of him and so self-conscious, he won't know what's gotten into you..Strike a balance between fashion and comfort and let your natural self shine..

You want to be comfortable without looking like a slob..Putting extra effort into your look will show him you're interested enough to look presentable and pretty....and you aren't relying on outrageous, inappropriately sexy attire just to catch his attention..

Smile..Your heart might be racing and every word that comes out of your mouth might seem dumb----but there's no need to worry about being awkward because all of that can be saved by the power of a smile!.A smile lets your guy know that you're confident, happy, and enjoying his company..It's also the quickest way to let him know you're interested..

There's no way you're going to get any progress wiht your guy if you're too shy to speak up..Message him online, text him,give him a random phone call, or chat him up in person---even small talk can work wonders..Conversation is a great way to offer him a sneak peek into your already fab personality..Talk smart and you'll reel him in soon enough..


Compliment him.. Everyone appreciates a compliment, just as long as it's sincere..You don't have to gush about how cute he is to his face(that might just scare him off)--tell him his guitar skills are amazing or that you hear he's great on a skateboard..You're not just making him feel good about himself, you're also clueing him in on the fact that you're also interested in what he's into...

Don't play dumb..Speak your mind, have an opinion. and don't be afraid to disagree with him..You'll come off as the interesting person you really are and he'll know that behind that pretty surface is substantial brainpower..

Stay positive..Nobody likes a downer! It's great when you're comfortable enough with your guy to rant and vent, but if every single thing that comes out of your mouth is unpleasant, it won't paint such a pretty picture of you..You don't have to be upbeat and sunny all the time, but happiness is a lot more infectious than being emo 24/7..

Play up the sense of humor..You don't have to be Tina Fey-funny, but easy breezy conversations that show you don't take yourself or things too seriously can definitely be attractive..Whether it's your talent for telling anecdotes, your knack for making jokes about yourself, or your fun quirks, a sense of humor shows guys you're fun to be around..

Act Smart.. Talking the talk will only matter if you're willing to walk the walk, too..Give more meat to those conversations and use your knack for remembering every details of what you talk about to work for you!..

Live out your passion..If you're into soccer, try out for football varsity and tell him why you think the Azkals are awesome..If you love dance, invite him to that class recital you're part of..Let him see you in your element, doing the thing you love, and if he doesn't think you're awesome after all that, then maybe he's not worth your time..

Follow your radar..Sure, you think the world of your guy, but everyone's got flaws..If he acts like a jerk towards you in any way, call him out on it and show him you're bummed..He'll realize that you're someone he should take seriously, and if he's any good, he'll fell responsible for his actions and want to make it up to you the best way he can..

Flirt accordingly..You'll have to raise the relationship quotient and have him see you not just a friend but as someone he could be in a relationship with..When your gut senses he's teasing you (in a good way), play along and flirt back..It's good to throw your guy a bone every once in a while and subtle and smart flirting can do the trick!.. Try not to come on too strong and toe the line between being someone he'll lump in the friend zone and someone who turns him off by being too forward...

RULE OF THUMB:
                                If you like yourself, chances are that guy you're eyeing will like you too!!!!...

Wednesday, September 21, 2011


Mahal Kita Kasi

"I hate you, Then I love you...Then I hate you, Then I love you more" ..."Sometimes I love you, sometimes I hate you. But when I hate you, it's because I love you"...

He is the Man in my Life we are friends, but yet we act like more. I am confused:(...But even though he doesn't feel the same way I do . I will Love him anyways.....

                           ***********************

You walked into my Life, you held out your arms....
You promised you would never leave, that you would always be there,
I never knew that I meant so much, that my heart was worth enough to care.

You showed me so many things, I started to dream of you every night,
You melted the coldness in my heart, with the warmth of your light.
I ended up falling for you, how could I not -
You're an Angel in disguise, and every touch from you makes my soul hot.

But then whenever i ask you,
You always told me "it's up to you"
Seems like you doesn't care,
I cannot understand this, the wrong messages you did send.

I am so far, I cannot turn back now, you are my friend,
so what do I do now. I don't know much, except here I am again
in Love with a man who only wants to be my friend.

I'm not sure if this is wrong, then again I don't know what's right,
I will Love You Anyways, even if its a lonely fight...

                 ********* Sweet and Spicy *********
       
Patience is another thing that I'm working on.

I must slow down and control myself. I need to have faith that I will find You, that You will find me. I need to practice self-control.

To be strong, I will keep You in mind.

I will trust that You are out there......



Sweet Morning.......:)...kisses

Friday, September 16, 2011

The Last Resort
"The Big Reveal cont."


Ready to step into a guy's shoes?

It's definitely in the "pull in case of emergency" territory----the kind when the guy is just too dense to get that you like him..It could be that he's never really thought of you in that way..It could also be that you guys are just too close as friends that it's never even crossed his mind..It could even be that he literally has the IQ of a slug---and if that's case, I have to ask, what did you ever see him anyway?..But whatever..When you almost literally have a huge sign hanging around your neck that's broadcasting your feeling's and he's still just too gormless to get it, then it's time to go for broke..

But how to go about it?..Remember, you are NOT declaring your love..You're just saying you like him, and no matter how deeply you feel about it, you have to say it like it's not a big deal..Your declaration needs to have that right balance of both conviction and casualness..Otherwise, it will come off as a bit psycho..

For all dire warnings, guy's can't deny the sexiness of a girl who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say it ...It's not for everyone to do, but if you think you ought to take that first step, just remember why you ended up liking the guy in the first place: because, out of all tons of guys in the universe, he was the one who ended up making your heart skip..Telling him that you like him should be just as breezy....

How It's Done......?

Say It in Person:  
                            This is the ideal way to do it..In fact, some would say this should be the ONLY way to do it..Try to time it as the natural end to a really, really good convo..(And pray that it's not literally the end.)

It's very personal, it's very heartfelt, it's very immediate..Did i mention that it's also very sweet?..:)

You get to see his reaction in real-time..And trust me: nothing is as soul-crushing as seeing your crush react with bewilderment at your most heartfelt admission..

Say It on Facebook:
                                 And by Facebook, i mean "Facebook chat".There'snothing more pathetic than posting it as a status for everyone to see----except, of course, for posting it as a status for everyone to see...and then tagging him in the post, too...

I advocate casualness when you do the Big Reveal, and you couldn't be more casual than Facebook. Plus, it gives him personal space to process your unexpected news..Trust me: that's important..

Bleached blue background, tiny font, pop-up windows---it"s a little impersonal, isn't it?

Say It Through Text:
                                Text? Couldn't you even try Facetime or something? Unlike a free-flowing conversation, a text message is very abrupt..Unless you've masterfully manipulated the chat thread to lead up to that point, i don't suggest you try it...

You're not laying too much of yourself on the line if you say it through text..No, that was not a type...

Say It Through Twitter:......DON'T.....


( Kisses n Hugs ).......mhuah..!!!!!

Thursday, September 15, 2011

The Big Reveal

"You're crushing hard on a guy and you want to tell him how you feel..Here's the lowdown on how you should or shouldn't---do it.."


So you like this guy..And not just in the Facebook way, not just one capital letter, but all-caps: LIKE..He's sweet, kind, intelligent, smells good....and he's actually fun to be around..Thus far, you've texted each other, posted a couple of messages in each other's Walls, had Twitter conversations...and real ones..You've even hung out a few times..With friends, of course, but yeah, there was that one time when it was just the two of you,but you wouldn't call it a date exactly,even if sometimes you wish you could..

To sum up, then: You've developed feelings for this guy__feelings so nice and warm that they threaten to pour out of you in an uncontrollable torrent of giddiness whenever you're around him..You don't know how long you can hold it in___somewhere inside you, dangerously close to the surface, is that urge to tell him how much you like him..Be honest, right?. Follow your heart? Say what you really feel? Isn't that kind of idea that's never a bad one?..

Actually, no..Here's the harsh truth: It's really bad idea..

I have a couple of psycho friends who did that...It didn't end well..It makes you look like you're obsessed!!..And he won't talk to you after..Unless he likes you back...


Yes, there's always that little disclaimer..Everything really just works out for the best....IF he likes you back..But that's a pretty big IF, isn't it?.......Bottom line, it makes you look desperate and easy....

So, would you or wouldn't do it?....

Me?...No and Yes

NO.......I'll give little hints----laugh at his jokes, make myself more available..But never directly say to a guy that i like him....

YES.....It's difinitely in the "pull in case of emergency" territory----i'll explain further in my next blog entry...ehe..:)


Saying "I Like You or I Love You" is a man's job..I'ts not that man are sexist, mind you!!!...They all for woman's equality....We are certainly want you to always be honest with your feelings and not be afraid to express urself...Plus, just for the sake of practicality, there's nothing better for guy's than to let the girl do all the hard work..But in this case : It's guy responsibility and duty,,..its guy honor and privilege to experience one of the freakin' scariest moments in guy's entire life...-----It's the rite of passage that we rightfully demand from you---if you (guy) can prove to us that you're man enough to risk everything and say how you really feel about us, then that means you guy's are serious....

BUT... when can a girl turn the traditional tables around and be the one who takes the first step?....or should we girl ought to take the first step?.....hmmpp...

Sweet Morning Everyone!!!!!!...mhuahhh..kisses:)

to be continue......"step into guy's shoes"...see u!!!!!!!

Monday, September 12, 2011

Love is very important. When you find someone through dating and relating who loves you for "who you are", it is an amazing experience. Similarly, it is rewarding to love someone else "as they are" (or "warts and all" as my grandmother would say). I believe that such a bond is priceless and should be nurtured with great affection. Love is part of our emotions, attachment chemicals in the barin and spirit (for those inclined),

Relationships, however, are an entirely different thing. Relationships are working partnerships. They involve thoughts, reasons, and decisions. They require two (or more) individuals in communication, commitment, and cooperative exchange.

As a result, love (feelings) and relationships (decisions) can have separate rules and expectations. Love, because it is a feeling, can be unconditional. Sometimes, no matter what a partner does, feelings toward them do not change. Relationships, however, are working partnerships. As such, they require conditions, boundaries, limits, and directions to run smoothly.

Therefore, a distinction must be made between "unconditional love"...and "unconditional relationships".

But, isn't love enough?

Now that we have made the distinction between "unconditional love" and "unconditional relationships", it is possible to love someone without limit, yet still have contingencies placed upon continuing a relationship with them. In other words, while you may continue to love a partner "no matter what", you may not choose to be in a relationship with them under all conditions. This distinction is important to understand. But, it doesn't hold for everyone...

There are some individuals that say, "no, love is enough". These individuals decide, as long as they have love, nothing else is necessary. As a result, their relationships become "unconditional" as well. They do not set firm boundaries, contingencies, or limits with their "partner". They make "relationship" decisions based on their feelings of love alone. Sometimes this works out... Other times, however, because no one is actively creating a working "partnership", disaster can strike. Furthermore, because there is an expectation to "accept the partner for who he/she is" at all times, relationships may perpetuate under the worst of conditions.

On the other hand, the distinction between love and relationships is upheld with individuals that say "healthy relationships are necessary too". These individuals love their partners unconditionally, but also set rules that maintain a relationship with them. They use influence, limits, and contingencies to ensure a balanced, equitable exchange in their romantic partnerships. Furthermore, while they may continue to "feel" love unconditionally, they also chose to end unhealthy partnerships when the conditions for them are no longer feasible.

Your task in dating is to select the "right" person...because that may be the only time you have influence over the health of the impending relationship. Once you choose and fall in love, you will then make keeping that love the highest priority. As a result, your relationship will most likely become "unconditional" - and your partner will ultimately be free to behave as he/she chooses without repercussion. So, pick wisely. Find someone who will "do right by you" for all time. Make sure they are upstanding, conscientious, and love you very deeply in return. Otherwise, you may find yourself in a very unhealthy relationship, with little recourse to fix it.

Your task in dating is to learn to set boundaries, limits, and contingencies to maintain a healthy relationship. Your task is to also use your influence in a caring and disciplined manner to create a balanced exchange with your dating partner. Such skills are not exercised to "control" or "manipulate" for selfish gain, but rather to maintain a mutually-beneficial and satisfying partnership. However, because your relationships will be more "conditional", personality differences can continue to be worked through after you pick a partner and fall in love. Unhealthy relationships can be remedied (or, in unfortunate situations dissolved), rather than simply endured. Nevertheless, there are few things more painful in life than choosing to leave an unhealthy relationship with someone you unconditionally love. So, picking someone you can "work with" is still an important idea.

For those who place love above all, there is little distinction between those two concepts. Both their love and their relationships are ultimately unconditional. This merger makes identification and selection of a conscientious partner of the utmost importance.

However, for those who equally value working partnerships with love, there is a wide distinction between the two concepts. Love can be felt unconditionally, while still maintaining conditional requirements for the partnership. This separation allows for more flexibility to both experience love and use influence to create healthy exchanges. For these individuals, a disciplined knowledge of negotiation, boundary-setting, influence, and persuasion can be invaluable...

Sweet Morning.....kisses..:)

Saturday, September 10, 2011

"Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.."

Nowadays, when almost every person has an access to the internet, getting acquainted is less complicates especially for those who are not easy to get on with. You feel safe, comfortable and more relaxed sitting behind a screen than sitting in a bar or cafeteria trying to strike up a friendship or impress some girl or a guy you barely know.

At home you don't need to try to be cool. You can be yourself and think about all the questions and answers before writing them down. That's a good thing because usually we tend to say something before thinking about it.

Chatting online gives you more time to think and not rush with the answers..Also, You can easily find people with the same interests and activities. Just visit some dating sites or forums of the activities you like and search for local events or meetings that are likely to attract people with similar interests.


However, there is one huge disadvantage of online relationships- you do not know whether the person you're chatting with is really the person that he or she is giving himself/herself for. You don't know whether it is really his or her photo and you can not check your friend's bio. Of course, the best thing about it is that you're already making a conversation, but it's only one side of the story. Try meeting that person for real.

One of my friends thought she was in love, because she had met some guy online. They chatted online for a week for 6-7 hours on a daily basis and then she went to see him. That was a total disaster. Firstly, he was a little different than in photos. Being honest from the very begining is very important and she felt deceived. But that wasn't the worst part. The worst part was that they did not find a topic to talk about. They already knew everything about each other from that week online. All topics were exhausted. My friend left him and returned home with a broken heart.

We arrive at a conclusion that if you really want to know your soulmate, you will have to meet him in the real world, not in the virtual....

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Online dating is definitely one of the most convenient ways to meet singles and even find a great relationship, but just because its convenient, doesn’t mean you are going to get what you want without any effort.

Online dating is a popular answer for How to find your perfect match? Online dating allows you to not only be matched only with those people with whom you have common interests, but to speak with them on your terms getting to know them as quickly as you wish. Searching through profiles you can pick and choose people with whom you have common interests and likes/dislikes. This allows you more time to meet and connect with more people and narrow down your search to only those that meet your specific standards. If you choose to meet anyone in person and advance your relationship you start out on your date with the comfort of knowing you will not be stuck with uneasy conversation

We arrive at a conclusion that if you really want to know your soulmate, you will have to meet him in the real world, not in the virtual

Don’t wait for Mr. or Ms. Right to find you. Only you really know what you want anyways, so get out there and start looking for it. Take advantage of the search options on your for your dating site so you can eliminate a lot of the people you aren’t interested in. When you find someone you like, SEND THEM AN EMAIL! Do not wink at them. Winking is for wusses!

Happy Searching!!!!!!...GL....kisses..:)
This blog was and still is intended to be a collection of my thoughts ...

A  purpose of this blog is for me to be able to reflect upon my own personal growth and to learn from others in and out of the lifestyle. I didn't expect it but am very glad and fortunate to have attracted some caring and intelligent semi-constant readers (who often have blogs that are neat, helpful, and that I track too). It's a nice support system...

Thank You!!!!!

Sweet Morning....mhuahh..kisses.:)

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Hunger

Hunger, is a funny word. It can describe how your stomach feels, when it needs food....It can also describe your desire or a craving. ....

I have a hunger in my heart,...A desire,...A craving,..Not so much for sex, but closeness.,..for a touch,..a caress. ,.Gentle on my spine,..or along the inside of my thigh,..a Kiss on my neck ,...or breath on my cheek,...hand on the small of my back,..whisper in my ear,..feet entangled ,...a lazy embrace,..mmm hunger,desire, craving..

YES i want it all.

sweet night !!!!!..kisses:)



Monday, September 5, 2011

BEAUTY

Beauty... In the eye of the beholder...

It always amazes me when someone says that I am beautiful or pretty...I think I am pretty average. Granted not everyone's cuppa tea... So I have been thinking... What makes one beautiful?

Is it a smile?

Dancing eyes?

full lips?

rosy cheeks?

full hips ? small hips?

Big breasts? small ones?

long lean legs? or long torso?

Is it anything physical at all?

What turns you on to the opposite sex... or same sex?

Is it anything phyisical at all?

What about intellect?

character?

humour?

confidence?

I know for me The first thing is a smile.. If it is genuine...honest. Totally hot! But it really isn't anything physical that turns me on completely. For most women the biggest errogenous (spelling) is her mind. So for me I dig a sense of humour... intelligence... strength of character/confidence. Yep, that is what gets me going...BUT it is the heart... yes the heart that keeps my attention...

Do ya judge the book by the cover... or do you go deeper?

I have to say that it is always a wonderful surprise to hear someone say.. "you are beautiful" ... or "hello gorgeous" those kind of heart-tingling words do tend to melt my heart, and make me blush.

But what else do you see?

Share your thoughts with me bloggers... Is it all about the wrapping... or the package???

Sunday, September 4, 2011

I have been wondering what to write about, I had good intentions of blathering on about something that is interesting about myself, but, right now I am somewhat tired, and am in an ambiguous mood. This week I am feeling ultra feminine and pretty. But, I also feel powerful and strong...

I have been fighting the urge to jump into some post break-up quickie, and am enjoying  the beauty of men chasing me. I just don't know whether to run fast or slow .I guess it depends on who I want to catch me. AND if I want to be caught.

Explaining the Dark Twin thing could be complicated.I have both a light and a dark side. One of Flesh one that is spiritual. The dark seems to explore the more sexual and is completely different than my lighter side. So being the dark twin-- It is just a facet of my personality, that seems to be more prevelant since my last relationship....

Loveless/abusive relationships are hard to fathom. So when we broke up, I decided I was done with pretending for people. I would embrace my personalities, light and dark and see where the road would take me.

I am Biggie, I am just contemplating how bad of a girl I want to be. Because truth be known, I can be very bad. I just need some time to protect my heart. As naughty as I am, I am not a stone cold bitch either (though it would come in handy, and I would truly love to throw some diva out there) But, alas the Light-twin in me usually keeps me on a tight leash.

 

Friday, September 2, 2011

One of the best things about being YOU is discovering the world...Every day, you have tons of opportunities to grow, to learn, and to shine with the big confidence that comes from the littlest things.....

 Try to be grateful for everything we have..And  never afraid to try new things...Always be natural..Don't pay too much attention to what other people say about you..Believe in your own strengths and accept your weaknesses....

Remember that every adversity has a positive side----there is always something good that can come out of it...You are worth more than you know....

Always have time for yourself, no matter how busy you are....Do whatever makes you happy---your best accessory is SMILE--it can do wonders....

I hope this article encourages you to show off the best of you and face the world with a confident smile...!!!

"Smile a while and while you smile, smile another smile and soon there will be miles and miles of smile just because you smiled, i wish your day is full of SMILE"

Sweet night everyone!!!!kisses.....:)