FOREVER....and a day..

The Last Resort
"The Big Reveal cont."

Ready to step into a guy's shoes?

It's definitely in the "pull in case of emergency" territory----the kind when the guy is just too dense to get that you like him..It could be that he's never really thought of you in that way..It could also be that you guys are just too close as friends that it's never even crossed his mind..It could even be that he literally has the IQ of a slug---and if that's case, I have to ask, what did you ever see him anyway?..But whatever..When you almost literally have a huge sign hanging around your neck that's broadcasting your feeling's and he's still just too gormless to get it, then it's time to go for broke..

But how to go about it?..Remember, you are NOT declaring your love..You're just saying you like him, and no matter how deeply you feel about it, you have to say it like it's not a big deal..Your declaration needs to have that right balance of both conviction and casualness..Otherwise, it will come off as a bit psycho..

For all dire warnings, guy's can't deny the sexiness of a girl who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to say it ...It's not for everyone to do, but if you think you ought to take that first step, just remember why you ended up liking the guy in the first place: because, out of all tons of guys in the universe, he was the one who ended up making your heart skip..Telling him that you like him should be just as breezy....

How It's Done......?

Say It in Person:  
                            This is the ideal way to do it..In fact, some would say this should be the ONLY way to do it..Try to time it as the natural end to a really, really good convo..(And pray that it's not literally the end.)

It's very personal, it's very heartfelt, it's very immediate..Did i mention that it's also very sweet?..:)

You get to see his reaction in real-time..And trust me: nothing is as soul-crushing as seeing your crush react with bewilderment at your most heartfelt admission..

Say It on Facebook:
                                 And by Facebook, i mean "Facebook chat".There'snothing more pathetic than posting it as a status for everyone to see----except, of course, for posting it as a status for everyone to see...and then tagging him in the post, too...

I advocate casualness when you do the Big Reveal, and you couldn't be more casual than Facebook. Plus, it gives him personal space to process your unexpected news..Trust me: that's important..

Bleached blue background, tiny font, pop-up windows---it"s a little impersonal, isn't it?

Say It Through Text:
                                Text? Couldn't you even try Facetime or something? Unlike a free-flowing conversation, a text message is very abrupt..Unless you've masterfully manipulated the chat thread to lead up to that point, i don't suggest you try it...

You're not laying too much of yourself on the line if you say it through text..No, that was not a type...

Say It Through Twitter:......DON'T.....


( Kisses n Hugs ).......mhuah..!!!!!