FOREVER....and a day..

Make Him Notice You!

(The Big Reveal Cont.3) 

Being aggresive and forward might get a guy's attention right away, but isn't 100% succesful each time..If you're not confident, cool, and totally comfortable letting him know you're interested straight on, it might be a good idea to start with simple yet effective strategies..Working your charm on the down low can yield positive results with less risk----giving you enough time to build your confidence..In the meantime, get your game on with these easy ways to make him fall for you hook, line, and sinker....


Personality counts a lot, but it won't hurt to keep that initial spark alive by prettifying yourself, no matter what your style is..Caring for your appearance isn't just about looking good---it's about taking care of yourself and liking those unique features that make you who you are..Knowing and acknowledging what's great about you will only make you more appealing to others!..

Get comfy.Donning a body-con dress in front of your crush may seem like good idea in theory, but imagine a full night of sucking in your tummy when you'd rather be in t-shirt and jeans. You'll be ill at ease in front of him and so self-conscious, he won't know what's gotten into you..Strike a balance between fashion and comfort and let your natural self shine..

You want to be comfortable without looking like a slob..Putting extra effort into your look will show him you're interested enough to look presentable and pretty....and you aren't relying on outrageous, inappropriately sexy attire just to catch his attention..

Smile..Your heart might be racing and every word that comes out of your mouth might seem dumb----but there's no need to worry about being awkward because all of that can be saved by the power of a smile!.A smile lets your guy know that you're confident, happy, and enjoying his company..It's also the quickest way to let him know you're interested..

There's no way you're going to get any progress wiht your guy if you're too shy to speak up..Message him online, text him,give him a random phone call, or chat him up in person---even small talk can work wonders..Conversation is a great way to offer him a sneak peek into your already fab personality..Talk smart and you'll reel him in soon enough..


Compliment him.. Everyone appreciates a compliment, just as long as it's sincere..You don't have to gush about how cute he is to his face(that might just scare him off)--tell him his guitar skills are amazing or that you hear he's great on a skateboard..You're not just making him feel good about himself, you're also clueing him in on the fact that you're also interested in what he's into...

Don't play dumb..Speak your mind, have an opinion. and don't be afraid to disagree with him..You'll come off as the interesting person you really are and he'll know that behind that pretty surface is substantial brainpower..

Stay positive..Nobody likes a downer! It's great when you're comfortable enough with your guy to rant and vent, but if every single thing that comes out of your mouth is unpleasant, it won't paint such a pretty picture of you..You don't have to be upbeat and sunny all the time, but happiness is a lot more infectious than being emo 24/7..

Play up the sense of humor..You don't have to be Tina Fey-funny, but easy breezy conversations that show you don't take yourself or things too seriously can definitely be attractive..Whether it's your talent for telling anecdotes, your knack for making jokes about yourself, or your fun quirks, a sense of humor shows guys you're fun to be around..

Act Smart.. Talking the talk will only matter if you're willing to walk the walk, too..Give more meat to those conversations and use your knack for remembering every details of what you talk about to work for you!..

Live out your passion..If you're into soccer, try out for football varsity and tell him why you think the Azkals are awesome..If you love dance, invite him to that class recital you're part of..Let him see you in your element, doing the thing you love, and if he doesn't think you're awesome after all that, then maybe he's not worth your time..

Follow your radar..Sure, you think the world of your guy, but everyone's got flaws..If he acts like a jerk towards you in any way, call him out on it and show him you're bummed..He'll realize that you're someone he should take seriously, and if he's any good, he'll fell responsible for his actions and want to make it up to you the best way he can..

Flirt accordingly..You'll have to raise the relationship quotient and have him see you not just a friend but as someone he could be in a relationship with..When your gut senses he's teasing you (in a good way), play along and flirt back..It's good to throw your guy a bone every once in a while and subtle and smart flirting can do the trick!.. Try not to come on too strong and toe the line between being someone he'll lump in the friend zone and someone who turns him off by being too forward...

RULE OF THUMB:
                                If you like yourself, chances are that guy you're eyeing will like you too!!!!...