Beauty... In the eye of the beholder...
It always amazes me when someone says that I am beautiful or pretty...I think I am pretty average. Granted not everyone's cuppa tea... So I have been thinking... What makes one beautiful?
Is it a smile?
Dancing eyes?
full lips?
rosy cheeks?
full hips ? small hips?
Big breasts? small ones?
long lean legs? or long torso?
Is it anything physical at all?
What turns you on to the opposite sex... or same sex?
Is it anything phyisical at all?
What about intellect?
character?
humour?
confidence?
I know for me The first thing is a smile.. If it is genuine...honest. Totally hot! But it really isn't anything physical that turns me on completely. For most women the biggest errogenous (spelling) is her mind. So for me I dig a sense of humour... intelligence... strength of character/confidence. Yep, that is what gets me going...BUT it is the heart... yes the heart that keeps my attention...
Do ya judge the book by the cover... or do you go deeper?
I have to say that it is always a wonderful surprise to hear someone say.. "you are beautiful" ... or "hello gorgeous" those kind of heart-tingling words do tend to melt my heart, and make me blush.
But what else do you see?
Share your thoughts with me bloggers... Is it all about the wrapping... or the package???
It always amazes me when someone says that I am beautiful or pretty...I think I am pretty average. Granted not everyone's cuppa tea... So I have been thinking... What makes one beautiful?
Is it a smile?
Dancing eyes?
full lips?
rosy cheeks?
full hips ? small hips?
Big breasts? small ones?
long lean legs? or long torso?
Is it anything physical at all?
What turns you on to the opposite sex... or same sex?
Is it anything phyisical at all?
What about intellect?
character?
humour?
confidence?
I know for me The first thing is a smile.. If it is genuine...honest. Totally hot! But it really isn't anything physical that turns me on completely. For most women the biggest errogenous (spelling) is her mind. So for me I dig a sense of humour... intelligence... strength of character/confidence. Yep, that is what gets me going...BUT it is the heart... yes the heart that keeps my attention...
Do ya judge the book by the cover... or do you go deeper?
I have to say that it is always a wonderful surprise to hear someone say.. "you are beautiful" ... or "hello gorgeous" those kind of heart-tingling words do tend to melt my heart, and make me blush.
But what else do you see?
Share your thoughts with me bloggers... Is it all about the wrapping... or the package???
the truth of beauty's beholding is only forever,to those who see more,
ReplyDeletewithin,and, outside,of one's Self.
And, yes, you are beautiful....
THAT was truly beautiful. Thank you for the comment..
ReplyDeleteI am not going to say looks don't play a part; of course, they do. And long hair does tend to get my attention. But the demeanor and disposition can keep me around or send me running...and if I get the feeling she is a drama queen...I can't escape fast enough. Been there, done that, and had enough for a few lifetimes. Now I hope to find someone who has a calm and patient nature, and who realizes that happiness comes from helping others...not just being concerned about one's own comfort.
ReplyDeletehmmp..beauty of the soul....
ReplyDeletebeauty might be traced to one or more attributes of a person, but deep beauty comes as a total package that includes the physical, the mental, and the spiritual qualities of an individual.
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