"Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.."
Nowadays, when almost every person has an access to the internet, getting acquainted is less complicates especially for those who are not easy to get on with. You feel safe, comfortable and more relaxed sitting behind a screen than sitting in a bar or cafeteria trying to strike up a friendship or impress some girl or a guy you barely know.
At home you don't need to try to be cool. You can be yourself and think about all the questions and answers before writing them down. That's a good thing because usually we tend to say something before thinking about it.
Chatting online gives you more time to think and not rush with the answers..Also, You can easily find people with the same interests and activities. Just visit some dating sites or forums of the activities you like and search for local events or meetings that are likely to attract people with similar interests.
However, there is one huge disadvantage of online relationships- you do not know whether the person you're chatting with is really the person that he or she is giving himself/herself for. You don't know whether it is really his or her photo and you can not check your friend's bio. Of course, the best thing about it is that you're already making a conversation, but it's only one side of the story. Try meeting that person for real.
One of my friends thought she was in love, because she had met some guy online. They chatted online for a week for 6-7 hours on a daily basis and then she went to see him. That was a total disaster. Firstly, he was a little different than in photos. Being honest from the very begining is very important and she felt deceived. But that wasn't the worst part. The worst part was that they did not find a topic to talk about. They already knew everything about each other from that week online. All topics were exhausted. My friend left him and returned home with a broken heart.
We arrive at a conclusion that if you really want to know your soulmate, you will have to meet him in the real world, not in the virtual....
Nowadays, when almost every person has an access to the internet, getting acquainted is less complicates especially for those who are not easy to get on with. You feel safe, comfortable and more relaxed sitting behind a screen than sitting in a bar or cafeteria trying to strike up a friendship or impress some girl or a guy you barely know.
At home you don't need to try to be cool. You can be yourself and think about all the questions and answers before writing them down. That's a good thing because usually we tend to say something before thinking about it.
Chatting online gives you more time to think and not rush with the answers..Also, You can easily find people with the same interests and activities. Just visit some dating sites or forums of the activities you like and search for local events or meetings that are likely to attract people with similar interests.
However, there is one huge disadvantage of online relationships- you do not know whether the person you're chatting with is really the person that he or she is giving himself/herself for. You don't know whether it is really his or her photo and you can not check your friend's bio. Of course, the best thing about it is that you're already making a conversation, but it's only one side of the story. Try meeting that person for real.
One of my friends thought she was in love, because she had met some guy online. They chatted online for a week for 6-7 hours on a daily basis and then she went to see him. That was a total disaster. Firstly, he was a little different than in photos. Being honest from the very begining is very important and she felt deceived. But that wasn't the worst part. The worst part was that they did not find a topic to talk about. They already knew everything about each other from that week online. All topics were exhausted. My friend left him and returned home with a broken heart.
We arrive at a conclusion that if you really want to know your soulmate, you will have to meet him in the real world, not in the virtual....
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