The Big Reveal
"You're crushing hard on a guy and you want to tell him how you feel..Here's the lowdown on how you should or shouldn't---do it.."
So you like this guy..And not just in the Facebook way, not just one capital letter, but all-caps: LIKE..He's sweet, kind, intelligent, smells good....and he's actually fun to be around..Thus far, you've texted each other, posted a couple of messages in each other's Walls, had Twitter conversations...and real ones..You've even hung out a few times..With friends, of course, but yeah, there was that one time when it was just the two of you,but you wouldn't call it a date exactly,even if sometimes you wish you could..
To sum up, then: You've developed feelings for this guy__feelings so nice and warm that they threaten to pour out of you in an uncontrollable torrent of giddiness whenever you're around him..You don't know how long you can hold it in___somewhere inside you, dangerously close to the surface, is that urge to tell him how much you like him..Be honest, right?. Follow your heart? Say what you really feel? Isn't that kind of idea that's never a bad one?..
Actually, no..Here's the harsh truth: It's really bad idea..
I have a couple of psycho friends who did that...It didn't end well..It makes you look like you're obsessed!!..And he won't talk to you after..Unless he likes you back...
Yes, there's always that little disclaimer..Everything really just works out for the best....IF he likes you back..But that's a pretty big IF, isn't it?.......Bottom line, it makes you look desperate and easy....
So, would you or wouldn't do it?....
Me?...No and Yes
NO.......I'll give little hints----laugh at his jokes, make myself more available..But never directly say to a guy that i like him....
YES.....It's difinitely in the "pull in case of emergency" territory----i'll explain further in my next blog entry...ehe..:)
Saying "I Like You or I Love You" is a man's job..I'ts not that man are sexist, mind you!!!...They all for woman's equality....We are certainly want you to always be honest with your feelings and not be afraid to express urself...Plus, just for the sake of practicality, there's nothing better for guy's than to let the girl do all the hard work..But in this case : It's guy responsibility and duty,,..its guy honor and privilege to experience one of the freakin' scariest moments in guy's entire life...-----It's the rite of passage that we rightfully demand from you---if you (guy) can prove to us that you're man enough to risk everything and say how you really feel about us, then that means you guy's are serious....
BUT... when can a girl turn the traditional tables around and be the one who takes the first step?....or should we girl ought to take the first step?.....hmmpp...
Sweet Morning Everyone!!!!!!...mhuahhh..kisses:)
to be continue......"step into guy's shoes"...see u!!!!!!!
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